Sunan at-Tirmithiy كتاب البر والصلة
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ أَخْبَرَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ أَخْبَرَنَا بَهْزُ بْنُ حَكِيمٍ حَدَّثَنِى أَبِى عَنْ جَدِّى قَالَ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَنْ أَبَرُّ قَالَ أُمَّكَ. قَالَ قُلْتُ ثُمَّ مَنْ قَالَ أُمَّكَ. قَالَ قُلْتُ ثُمَّ مَنْ قَالَ أُمَّكَ. قَالَ قُلْتُ ثُمَّ مَنْ قَالَ ثُمَّ أَبَاكَ ثُمَّ الأَقْرَبَ قَالَ وَفِى الْبَابِ عَنْ أَبِى هُرَيْرَةَ وَعَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ وَعَائِشَةَ وَأَبِى الدَّرْدَاءِ. قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى وَبَهْزُ بْنُ حَكِيمٍ هُوَ ابْنُ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ حَيْدَةَ الْقُشَيْرِىُّ. وَهَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ. وَقَدْ تَكَلَّمَ شُعْبَةُ فِى بَهْزِ بْنِ حَكِيمٍ وَهُوَ ثِقَةٌ عِنْدَ أَهْلِ الْحَدِيثِ وَرَوَى عَنْهُ مَعْمَرٌ وَالثَّوْرِىُّ وَحَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ وَغَيْرُ وَاحِدٍ مِنَ الأَئِمَّةِ.
Mu‘āwiyah Ibn-Ḥaydah said, "I asked, ‘Messenger of God, to whom should I be dutiful?’ He replied, ‘Your mother.’ So, I asked, ‘Then to whom?’ He replied, ‘Your mother.’ So, I asked, ‘Then to whom?’ He replied, ‘Your mother.’ So, I asked, ‘Then to whom?’ He replied, ‘Your father, then your closest [relatives].’” Click on ḥadīth to read more
Mu‘āwiyah Ibn-Ḥaydah said, "I asked, ‘Messenger of God, to whom should I be dutiful?’ He replied, ‘Your mother.’ So, I asked, ‘Then to whom?’ He replied, ‘Your mother.’ So, I asked, ‘Then to whom?’ He replied, ‘Your mother.’ So, I asked, ‘Then to whom?’ He replied, ‘Your father, then your closest [relatives].’” Click on ḥadīth to read more
حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِى عُمَرَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ عَنْ عَطَاءِ بْنِ السَّائِبِ الْهُجَيْمِىِّ عَنْ أَبِى عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ السُّلَمِىِّ عَنْ أَبِى الدَّرْدَاءِ أَنَّ رَجُلاً أَتَاهُ فَقَالَ إِنَّ لِى امْرَأَةً وَإِنَّ أُمِّى تَأْمُرُنِى بِطَلاَقِهَا. قَالَ أَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ الْوَالِدُ أَوْسَطُ أَبْوَابِ الْجَنَّةِ فَإِنْ شِئْتَ فَأَضِعْ ذَلِكَ الْبَابَ أَوِ احْفَظْهُ. قَالَ وَقَالَ ابْنُ أَبِى عُمَرَوَ رُبَّمَا قَالَ سُفْيَانُ إِنَّ أُمِّى وَرُبَّمَا قَالَ أَبِى. وَهَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحٌ. وَأَبُو عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ السُّلَمِىُّ اسْمُهُ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ حَبِيبٍ.
A man came to Abū-ad-Dardā' and said, "I have a wife, and my mother (1) is ordering me to divorce her." Abū-ad-Dardā' replied, "I heard the Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, say, 'A parent is the central gate of Paradise (2)! It is up to you to miss out on that gate or hold on to it! '" Footnotes: (1) The narrator was unsure whether he said "my mother" or "my father" (2) i.e. being dutiful to parents is a main factor in entering Paradise. Click on ḥadīth to read more
A man came to Abū-ad-Dardā' and said, "I have a wife, and my mother (1) is ordering me to divorce her." Abū-ad-Dardā' replied, "I heard the Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, say, 'A parent is the central gate of Paradise (2)! It is up to you to miss out on that gate or hold on to it! '" Footnotes: (1) The narrator was unsure whether he said "my mother" or "my father" (2) i.e. being dutiful to parents is a main factor in entering Paradise. Click on ḥadīth to read more
حَدَّثَنَا حُمَيْدُ بْنُ مَسْعَدَةَ حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ الْمُفَضَّلِ حَدَّثَنَا الْجُرَيْرِىُّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِى بَكْرَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَلاَ أُحَدِّثُكُمْ بِأَكْبَرِ الْكَبَائِرِ. قَالُوا بَلَى يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ. قَالَ الإِشْرَاكُ بِاللَّهِ وَعُقُوقُ الْوَالِدَيْنِ. قَالَ وَجَلَسَ وَكَانَ مُتَّكِئًا فَقَالَ وَشَهَادَةُ الزُّورِ أَوْ قَوْلُ الزُّورِ. فَمَا زَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُهَا حَتَّى قُلْنَا لَيْتَهُ سَكَتَ. قَالَ وَفِى الْبَابِ عَنْ أَبِى سَعِيدٍ. قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ. وَأَبُو بَكْرَةَ اسْمُهُ نُفَيْعُ بْنُ الْحَارِثِ.
The Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said, "Shall I tell you about the gravest of the grave sins?" We replied, "Yes, Messenger of God." He said, "Associating [partners] with God and being undutiful towards parents." He then sat up from his leaning position and said, "And false testimony or false statement!" The Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, kept repeating it until we wished he would stop. Click on ḥadīth to read more
The Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said, "Shall I tell you about the gravest of the grave sins?" We replied, "Yes, Messenger of God." He said, "Associating [partners] with God and being undutiful towards parents." He then sat up from his leaning position and said, "And false testimony or false statement!" The Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, kept repeating it until we wished he would stop. Click on ḥadīth to read more
حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ عَنِ ابْنِ الْهَادِ عَنْ سَعْدِ بْنِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم مِنَ الْكَبَائِرِ أَنْ يَشْتُمَ الرَّجُلُ وَالِدَيْهِ. قَالُوا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَهَلْ يَشْتُمُ الرَّجُلُ وَالِدَيْهِ قَالَ نَعَمْ يَسُبُّ أَبَا الرَّجُلِ فَيَشْتُمُ أَبَاهُ وَيَشْتُمُ أُمَّهُ فَيَسُبُّ أُمَّهُ. قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ.
The Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said, "Among the grave sins is the insult of one’s parents." They exclaimed, "Messenger of God, does a man (1) insult his parents?" He replied, "Yes. He curses a man's (1) father, so he insults his father; and he insults the man's mother so he curses his mother." Footnotes: (1) Masculine pronouns are generally used in Arabic as a means for referring to both men and women when the meaning is left general and is not otherwise specified. Click on ḥadīth to read more
The Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said, "Among the grave sins is the insult of one’s parents." They exclaimed, "Messenger of God, does a man (1) insult his parents?" He replied, "Yes. He curses a man's (1) father, so he insults his father; and he insults the man's mother so he curses his mother." Footnotes: (1) Masculine pronouns are generally used in Arabic as a means for referring to both men and women when the meaning is left general and is not otherwise specified. Click on ḥadīth to read more
حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْمُبَارَكِ أَخْبَرَنَا حَيْوَةُ بْنُ شُرَيْحٍ أَخْبَرَنِى الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ أَبِى الْوَلِيدِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ إِنَّ أَبَرَّ الْبِرِّ أَنْ يَصِلَ الرَّجُلُ أَهْلَ وُدِّ أَبِيهِ. قَالَ وَفِى الْبَابِ عَنْ أَبِى أَسِيدٍ. قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا إِسْنَادٌ صَحِيحٌ وَقَدْ رُوِىَ هَذَا الْحَدِيثُ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ مِنْ غَيْرِ وَجْهٍ.
The Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said, "Indeed, the best of righteous deeds is for a man to keep in touch with his father’s loved ones (after his death)." Click on ḥadīth to read more
The Messenger of God, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said, "Indeed, the best of righteous deeds is for a man to keep in touch with his father’s loved ones (after his death)." Click on ḥadīth to read more
